May 2012
im not posting here anymore.
Some of You have been followed again, others can msg me for the new URL. If you dont get a reply in a couple days, it means I’m not going to tell you and its best we both move on.
Tumblr has felt extremely toxic lately/ and I’m taking steps to make it less so for myself. If I haven’t already added you its likely because I got tired of trying to remember everyone’s URL...
That thing where white, cisgender gay dudes think...
gayboywithamohawk:
why do you insist so badly on segregating yourself from people like me? seriously, we’re all struggling. it doesn’t matter whom is struggling more than whom, we are all struggling. and I’m not just talking about the LGBT… community, we as a people are all struggling. so stop acting like I have 100% privilege or that I’m trying to exacerbate my struggle, because you don’t know...
That thing where white, cisgender gay dudes think...
My optometrist says it isn't healthy for me to...
Were gonna be in chicago again in a couple weeks,...
The point is, I have lqqks to create before then, and I used some mmoney I got freelancing to buy lots of fabrics and sewing supplies and there might be black lace involved.
Get ready.
What if gay white dudes stopped pretending their...
What if gay white dudes stopped pretending their...
I just had a wonderful conversation about...
it is complicated.
I get that its important to many politicians right now to explain to us where they stand on the issue of “Gay Marriage”, and i’m really not here to debate the importance of this issue.
when things like “gay marriage” are discussed as frequently as they have been in the last 24 hours, i can’t help but sit back, listen, and think about intersectionality.
The...
the secret answer to everything everyone ever...
rljd:
“NO! IT’S MORE COMPLICATED THAN THAT.”
That thing where jadzia dax is in Hellraiser3
On biggie-shorty
Me: so I should get booty shorts?
Duncan: she has on FISHNETS and booty shorts.
Me: how else do you wear booty shorts?!
How do we feel about cropped jackets made of...
Cus I’m thinking yes?
“Do people realize that if the gay community could recruit that anyone marginally...”
– Duncan
That moment when you realize your drag persona is...
I think the thing giving me all the feels about...
I dunno. Ugh.
OK I got out of bed and hemmed some pants in to...
I also made them skinnier. But now the back looks a little wedgie-ish but whatever.
The current bane of my existence is that I can't...
I've been reading "Speaker for the Dead", the...
Why is orson scott card such a d-bag?
I suppose I have nothing better to do until the...
My sewing machine arrived yesterday and now begins...
Until I can afford to buy all the fabric I need to start building my drag concepts anyway.
My nightly cuddle pile with duncan and mu is...
Can we talk about how asinine the use of the...
Like you just one day got it in to yr head to drop by the jiffy lube and have your oil and sex changed.
It just sounds really trivial in comparison to using real terminology like gender dysphoria and trasitioning. A sex change sounds like a one time procedure where as being transgender is a lifetime of experience and decision making and honesty and pain and judgement and concerted effort.
I...
The zappos employee who's been harassing me via...
And the one in south Jordan, Utah, should as well.
Rude.
Anonymous asked: Ive learned so much today, if I dont comment on and treat all races equally, i'm a racist idiot, if I treat all races equally but talk mad shit about white people then im definitely not a racist. Take that white people! What a victory!
Lulz@ every anon ever who thinks they've...
Yup, you got me there, anon. If that’s what racist means to you, then I am racist as fuck and you win. Your war bonnet and yoga DVDs are in the mail, enjoy all the things us racists have been keeping you from with our racism.
Anonymous asked: previous anons: using the term "race card" betrays your racist ignorance. Thinking that a critique of whiteness is the same as anti-black racism betrays your racist ignorance. Read some "Berenstein Bears Say No To Racism" or some shit before you try to talk to the grownups about what is & isn't racism.
Anonymous asked: And you still cant communicate like an adult... you are a tragic child incapable of living in a world where we dont have to label anyone or anything by the color of the skin of the people who enjoy it. Refusing to label things by their race doesn't make me a racist idiot, it just means I posses a vocabulary beyond yours I guess... I expected better from you and you should expect better of...
Anonymous asked: Was that called for, do you feel better about your choices now? You post hateful bigoted drivel online constantly, anytime you are called out on it you respond in anger, take a glance inward from time to time man. I sent that because you are BETTER than having to play the race card, you are smarter than that. Dont be such a child.
Anonymous asked: NO, that isn't fucking stupid, and isn't fucking racist either. Maybe we should get a dictionary to define what's racist because this is obnoxious and pretty pointless.
Anonymous asked: I think the previous Anon may have a point, this comes from a place of love. You are very progressive in many aspects, you are passionate and vocal about gender neutrality but you have so much to work on in the way of race neutrality. You play the race card often when you shouldn't even acknowledge it.
Yes, I could turn off anon, but sometimes you just...
Anonymous asked: "insufferably white" hahaha. If anything is insufferable, it's you. You know damn well that you'd be the first person to pull the "you're a racist!" bullshit if a Caucasian were to post "the music at my work is so insufferably black!" You're a hypocrite.
my sewing machine should be arriving tomorrow...
i can't stop touching my eyebrow stubble.
i don’t know why it’s so amusing, but it is.
