Some of You have been followed again, others can msg me for the new URL. If you dont get a reply in a couple days, it means I’m not going to tell you and its best we both move on.
Tumblr has felt extremely toxic lately/ and I’m taking steps to make it less so for myself. If I haven’t already added you its likely because I got tired of trying to remember everyone’s URL and, tho I can be mean, I’m mostly just lazy.
why do you insist so badly on segregating yourself from people like me? seriously, we’re all struggling. it doesn’t matter whom is struggling more than whom, we are all struggling. and I’m not just talking about the LGBT… community, we as a people are all struggling. so stop acting like I have 100% privilege or that I’m trying to exacerbate my struggle, because you don’t know me, you don’t know all cis gendered white gay dudes, and insisting on saying this type of shit completely negates any and all oppression they and I have experienced. you are not helping by saying your experience is worse than mine, you are hurting.
it’s not cool, it’s just plain mean, and quite frankly it’s bullying. yeah, intergroup bullying is totally a thing, and a “fuck you” to those who think it doesn’t exist. I don’t even care if I get hate for this, this shit is just plain rude. I try to stay civil, but fuck it, apparently no one cares what I have to say anyways, so why not say it?
this has absolutely nothing to do with you or anything you just said, so maybe ask for clarification before you go on a vitriolic rant about how mean I am to you.
The point is, I have lqqks to create before then, and I used some mmoney I got freelancing to buy lots of fabrics and sewing supplies and there might be black lace involved.